A man has shared the outlandish demands his girlfriend made after he dumped her for cheating - and people think she's completely lost the plot
Once a relationship ends, it's not typical for an ex to continue doing favors for you.
Generally, when a couple decides their relationship isn't working out, they part ways and cease communication. There are exceptions where exes remain friends, but breakups are usually difficult - particularly if the split is due to an unforgivable act like infidelity. This was the case for one man who discovered his girlfriend of 11 years had been unfaithful with another man.
After he ended the relationship, his ex-girlfriend - now dating the other man - made an audacious request for him to "continue paying her bills". The man shared on Reddit that he isn't "wealthy" but managed to support his girlfriend by covering her bills, treating her to weekly dates, and planning several vacations each year.
However, post-breakup, she insisted that he should vacate his own home so she can move in with her new boyfriend - while he continues to foot all the house-related bills.
He explained: "She said because I had family in the area and she didn't, I should move out but continue paying the bills to give her and the new guy a chance to get on their feet. She also insisted on keeping my dogs and told me I could only see my own dogs if I asked the new guy. But since they didn't have any money, I needed to continue paying for food and vet bills. Instead, I kicked her out and kept my dogs."
His ex-girlfriend's audacity didn't end there; she even tried to "sue" him for lost wages after having to switch jobs due to moving house. When that failed, she began pleading with his family members for cash.
He continued: "She started messaging every family member of mine that she could find. Told them I cost her everything out of spite just because she moved on with someone else, and that the least they could do is send her money to help her get a place and pay rent.
Ex so entitled she thinks I should be paying bills for her and the guy she cheated with.
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"I don't understand how she doesn't understand that any financial support I gave her would end if she cheated on me. We weren't married. We don't have kids. I've supported her for years. I owe her nothing. I really don't owe it to her to help her and her new relationship get on their feet and establish themselves. Which seems to come as a shock to her."
Online supporters of the man were flabbergasted by the audacity of his ex's demands, with many advising him to block her completely and resist any pressure to comply with her requests.
One individual advised: "Time to block her on everything. Talk to your family and have them block her on all social platforms as well. She wanted to move on with someone else, now it's time to put on her big girl pants and pay for her own life."
Meanwhile, another added: "She really thought that once your relationship with her ended, you would continue to fund her lifestyle. You felt massively disrespected and hurt by her. To me, it sounds like she was only with you for your money, not for who you are."